I hope you are ready for another huge-giant-photo-loaded-post! On Tuesday we showed you photos of the food and drink at our sister’s Bride’s Party, and today (as promised) you will get to see the decorations. Three things you need to know before I start this: 1. The theme of the shower was white, white, white! 2. Our family can’t do anything on a small scale. 3. We are really really excited for our sister to get married. Ok ready? Let’s go!
I got the inspiration to a have a white-themed party, and we went all out for it! Our parent’s were kind enough to let us use their house for the event, and we went about decorating every nook and cranny.
On the front porch we had shimmery fabric draped with “cup-lights” made by Stormie (they are little white plastic drinking cups!). And of course, a white floral wreath on the front door – a must.
I asked my sister Tara to be in charge of the gift-table, and it turned out so cute! She decorated it to look like a vintage desk, and filled it with a typewriter, globe, birdcage (for cards), and a white lamp. She also made a sweet doily garland to hang above it, and streamer decor for the front window!
“You give me the kind of feeling people write novels about.”
The next big element was flowers. Tons and tons of them. Our mom really went to town making these out of paper, and she did a beautiful job of draping them over the bannister. Seriously, it was GORGEOUS! We did however have to gently force her to stop making them. Once she got going, she couldn’t stop! :)
The hosts! Tara (oldest sister), Jovan (married to our brother), mom, me & Stormie Dae
Stormie made an adorable paper heart garland that we strung across the back door. Jovan made some white on white art – so cute! She also made a white floral mobile, but sadly, I couldn’t find a photo of it! It was breathtaking.
Tredessa (the bride) had requested that no games be played at the party (hooray!), but we did have photos of her and her fiance that people could write advice, congratualtions, ect… on the back.
This part of the decor was my labor of love/hate. I came up with an idea (in my head) to have a white “ruffled” paper ceiling that was back-lit by Christmas lights. Even though I LOVED how it turned out, I will never attempt it on such a large scale again. 440 sheets of legal size copy paper, a hole punch, and yarn. The whole thing only cost me $1.50 to make, but it took about 6 hours to create it. Whew.
The guest of honor! Every bride needs a flower wall to stand in front of…don’t ya think? She looks gorgeous!
Mom, thank you so much for all of your hard work! You made 90% of the food, cleaned, made paper flowers like there was no tomorrow, and infused your great style into so much of what the party turned out to be.
Tara, thank you for heading up the gift table at the last minute and for being so willing to help with/try so many of the decorations! I loved how the gift table turned out!
Jovan, your decorations were beautiful! Thank you for jumping in to lend a hand to me at any given moment!
Stormie, I really can’t imagine doing an event without you! You were a photographer, decorations creator, bread maker, coffee bar designer, food label artist, and videographer. Is there anything that you can’t do? :)
And of course, Tredessa, thanks for finding Ryan and falling in love so that we could throw this amazing party for you! I hope that you know how much we all love you and wanted it to be a night that you would never forget.
*There are 2 more people who need to be mentioned because they helped so much and weren’t even invited:
Thanks Dad for all of your help with the ceiling, lights, cleaning, climbing ladders, and searching for our supplies! You are always such a great help to us all!
And thank you to my husband Tristan – you saw that I was going to have a stress-induced meltdown when the ceiling was taking longer than expected, and you volunteered yourself to help me get it done. Thank you SO much – I literally could not have done it without you!
I love you all!
And that concludes my longest post ever. Hope you liked it:)
Stormie
Oct 27, 2011 -
Oh no! How did I not get a photo of the mobile?!?! I felt so rushed at picture time, I am so sorry Jio! It was a beautiful mobile! I should just sneak a photo now and we’ll add it in to this post!
Everyone did an incredible job and so much was done without me because of work – I feel like I didn’t do my share, but of course the wonderful women in the fam can pull it off without a hitch! ;-)
LOVE hosting parties and love fests with you guys…we should do it more often – when can everyone come to my house to decorate for Christmas? Ha!
Pearl
Oct 27, 2011 -
I LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT!!!!! Those flowers up the stairs and my most favorite thing it that ruffled ceiling!!!! So worth the time. BEAUTIFUL!!! Way to go girls! =0)
Heather
Oct 27, 2011 -
I’m in love with the ceiling stephanie! It looks incredible and although you warned us, I’m so tempted to try it out myself someday! Well done Rhodes Women!
Heather
Oct 27, 2011 -
oops typo- Well done Rhoades Women!
j
Oct 28, 2011 -
Steph – you are a devoted and capable Matron of Honor and a wonderful visionary. Your love showed all over the place.
the Bride
Oct 30, 2011 -
I can’t even begin to express what an incredible party it was! I wasn’t allowed to see anything beforehand and didn’t want to be a part of figuring it out so I walked into this white wonderland and was blown away! This is NOT adequate AT ALL, but thank you, Steph, for your creativity and labor of love in throwing this. Thank you, momma, for the glorious food, your home and being a flower-making machine. Thank you, Tara, Storm & Jov for aiding Steph and mom and working your behinds off for this thing! And thank all of you for loving me so much to do something so beautiful for me. I’m not going to start crying…I’m not! :) I love you guys so much! It was the most beautiful shower I’ve ever seen!!
Heather C
Oct 31, 2011 -
Gorgeous decorations! Well done all. Can you tell me how large the room was with the ruffled ceiling? I love the look of it and I’m thinking of doing something similar for a work event but I’d love to know what I’m getting into before I start. We have a very large space so maybe I could scale it back and just do part of the room.
Stephanie May*
Nov 1, 2011 -
Thanks everyone! It was really fun:)
Heather, the ceiling that I did was about 15′ x 15′. The ceiling was also 9′ ft high, so there was a lot of up & down on the ladder:) It was a lot more time consuming than I ever imagined! Please share a photo if you decide to do it!
Duncan McNab
Mar 26, 2012 -
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